

When I masturbate I don’t squirt, but I still feel my vagina doing the pushing motion and the sensation that squirting might happen. I really like the closeness and intimacy I feel when I can come while our bodies are still fully attached. I always end up pushing him out or feeling like the orgasm isn’t quite complete unless I at least attempt to squirt.

I’ve had some success using a strap on with this partner during vibrator time, but often the proximity of the vibrator to the strap on ends up with me feeling the vibration too, which is a hard no for me.īecause of this, I don’t seem to be able to come while my partner is still inside of me, which is something that I really miss, not to mention the length and sensation of my old orgasms. The other partner regularly takes my fist, but if I put my fist in them while we’re using the vibrator, it hurts my wrist so much I can’t continue (most likely due to the large wand-style vibrator they like to use). One of my partners doesn’t like anything to go inside their vagina during vibrator time because of overstimulation. And after we start with the vibrator, there’s no chance that I can go back later to pleasuring their clit with my hands or mouth because the vibrator either does such a good job that nothing else feels good, or leaves their clit feeling too overstimulated to want anything else. It’s not satisfying to sit there holding a toy to my partner’s clit for a long period of time. I am exclusively a top, and get all my sexual satisfaction from pleasuring my partners and getting them off. Both my partners own vibrators and like to incorporate them in sex, which should be fine, right? My problem is that when the vibrator comes out, sex instantly gets boring for me. I have two partners who I regularly have sex with.
